| It is tiring to get into new relationships after every few | | | | while other overspends. Will the joint account work? |
| years. Every relationship demands lot of work and | | | | Sometimes, the woman may be earning more than the |
| understanding. It needs lot of adjustments. Relationships | | | | man and the man may have to work on the male ego |
| cannot be easily established, but they get broken | | | | to happily go along. It is true with women. She may like |
| easily. The results are disastrous for both the partners. | | | | to boss around but her partner may be more |
| How to have longer lasting relationships? That question | | | | dominating. She will have to work on both. |
| needs to be addressed and answers found. Let us | | | | Every relationship is meeting of two individuals who |
| think about that. | | | | have to love each other, accept each other and learns |
| To have a relationship that works, one has to work. | | | | to live happily with each other. That requires work. Find |
| Most of us take a relationship for granted once we | | | | out how you are different compared to your partner. |
| reach a certain level of intimacy. We assume that we | | | | Now find out if there is any way these differences |
| are regular partners. We forget to work on the rough | | | | may hurt the relationship. If yes, try to smoothen them. |
| edges and that dooms the relationship to your surprise. | | | | Similarly keep alert about the values of your partner. |
| There may be many differences between both of | | | | Do not ignore them. Once you realize that there is a |
| you. Your value systems may be different. Your | | | | big gap between values, it is better to sit down and |
| political beliefs may be different. Your ideas about the | | | | talk. If after that you find that the gap is wide, decide to |
| future may be different. She/he might be looking | | | | break-up. It is important that relationship be broken |
| forward to a childfree marriage whereas you might be | | | | rather than continued with huge differences. But if you |
| planning for a home full of children. Your financial | | | | know that your relationship can survive long, work on |
| planning may be different. One may believe in saving | | | | that. |