| Whenever I'm talking to young men about their | | | | often he tries hard to play up his own feats and |
| experiences with meeting girls, I'm struck by the | | | | accomplishments, in an effort to attract or even |
| similarity in their difficulties. The book called "How to | | | | seduce a young lady. While the lady is often polite, she |
| Win Friends and Influence People" can be an important | | | | knows inside that it is not going anywhere. The man |
| guide in this little foray as well as in "real life" Carnegie's | | | | who show genuine interest in his female companion, on |
| primary rule for getting people to like you is to show | | | | the other hand, has a definite advantage. |
| interest in the other person. | | | | If this is the case in real life, why would it not be the |
| Of course, when a young man is scanning the pages | | | | case on line.first you need a great opening message, |
| of MySpace, he will be drawn to the photographs first, | | | | after that, the ball is in your court. Try something simple, |
| that is normal expected and even acceptable. Then its | | | | "Oh, hi, I see that you are visited the Caribbean, how |
| time to start paying attention to the other little details. | | | | was it?" Do you see why this is a better approach |
| Her interests, desires, goals: the things that are | | | | then, "Hi, I was the captain of my high school football |
| important to her should be important to you. | | | | team. |
| In real life, when a man is trying to attract a woman, | | | | |