How Do We Gain Confidence? Part 1

Somebody asked me this question and I respondedcan learn to ride it, or they will not try.
with - excellent question, I'd have to say we gainIf you get negative results do not see them as a
confidence by taking the chance. The outcome mayFAILURE rather than an education and merely a
be what we desired or it may be different but the facttemporary set back. The more kudos you can give to
that we took chance gives us confidence. This worksyourself for trying your best, the better your chances
with some phobias. I have the height phobia. I try toof success next time.
look below from heights without getting afraid. SmallConfidence is built from success and what you learn
heights first. The phobia is very much there but I willfrom failure.
conquer it soon. I have the confidence now. Let me listConfidence is all about a positive mind-set.
few important points about confidence-A small child does not know how to walk but looking
Begin with confidence and you will know you can doat others walking he gets the confidence that he too
just about anything you choose.can walk. Observe successful people. That gives
Confidence comes from attempting to do things andconfidence.
recognizing our efforts or accomplishments. A personThink of what you are confident about and pull up your
does not become confident riding a bicycle until theyshoulders.
have done it, but they need some confidence that they